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    Allow Me to Re-introduce Myself; I’m Nasty Gal

    Stranger on Beyoncé’s internet: You are difficult na. Take it easy Me: You’ve barely known me for 10 minutes and you concluded that. I’m dead. I noticed that TJ is the only mutual friend we have. How did you come across my profile again? Stranger: Can you relax please? Let’s…

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    Friendships while Adulting

    Today I’m blogging about maintaining relationships while adulting. One of the things I put down under “relationships” in my 2020 vision board is to be a better sister/daughter/friend and lover. I’m quite useless with my phone. Yes, I may always have it in my hands but trust me it’s cause…

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    Loving the Skin You’re In

    Does my sexiness upset you? Does it come as a surprise That I dance like I’ve got diamonds At the meeting of my thighs? Let’s be grown up folks for a bit and talk about nudes. Not nudes in a perverted manner, not that there’s anything wrong with that. I’m…

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    I Don’t Want Kids and I’m Fine With That

    You read that right. I don’t want kids and I’m fine with it. This is a sentence that has repeatedly shocked the people in my life and will probably shock some of you the old readers. It is after all on this same platform that I repeatedly wrote “Letters to…

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    Welp! I Am My Mother

    I don’t have a typical close relationship with my mother, evident in us going three weeks without speaking to each other in the last post. Matter of fact, I have spent more time away from my mother than I have with her. From the age of 3, I wasn’t really…

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    Find Your Voice

    It was Martin Luther King who said “Our lives begin to end the day we stay silent about things that matter”. No truer words can depict what is going on in the world right now. From a pandemic to racism to rape, there’s an attack on all sides. Omojuwa referred…

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    Hang In There

    To say my heart has been heavy the past few days would be an understatement. Every time I’ve come online, there’s been one bad news after another; from America literally burning to the Nigerian Police Force killing an unarmed young girl to another young woman being raped in a church.…