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    A Thin Line Between Love & Hate

    The first time I came across this phrase, I was definitely under 10 and it just made for a good movie starring the ever graceful Lynn Whitfield. But now, in this current season that I’m in, I understand all too well how faint the line between love and hate is.…

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    It’s Giving Shackles

    I serve in the Children’s church, specifically with the 6 & 7 years class, which constantly reaffirms my position on not wanting kids. But that’s not what this is about. I recall a Sunday service where a little boy had put his offering in the basket with his left hand…

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    Creating Joy

    I remember the first time I learned there was a difference between joy and happiness, it was thanks to “I Smile” by Kirk Franklin, where he said I just don’t want you to be happy, cause then you have to have something happening. I want you to have joy ’cause…

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    Goodbye TV

    In the past month, I’ve said goodbye to two TV shows that managed to keep my attention span; This is Us and Grace & Frankie and now I don’t know what else to watch. I mean I’ve tried other shows but I just can’t seem to concentrate. I loved This…

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    Within and Without

    The new common language will be more simple and regular than the existing European languages. It will be as simple as Occidental; in fact, it will be Occidental. To an English person, it will seem like simplified English, as a skeptical Cambridge friend of mine told me what Occidental is.…

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    Of This Our Country- A Missed Reality

    When I saw the book “Of This Our Country” posted on RovingHeights’ Instagram page, I instantly knew I had to get it. Contrary to the popular adage, I shamefully judge books by their cover. Once I saw the under title “Acclaimed Nigerian writers on the home, identity and culture they…

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    What’s Your Passion?

    The new common language will be more simple and regular than the existing European languages. It will be as simple as Occidental; in fact, it will be Occidental. To an English person, it will seem like simplified English, as a skeptical Cambridge friend of mine told me what Occidental is.…

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    You’re Doing Amazing Sweetie

    Recently a friend said to me “you’re actual career goals”. I didn’t think too much of it despite the fact that she said it about two or three times in the course of our conversation. Then weeks later, another friend while complaining about not feeling motivated at work and wanting…

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    Therapy; You Need It More Than You Realize

    Seated at the Piano Lounge at the Hilton one evening, Okey and I were mid discussion when he turned to me and asked “do you think I’m f*cked up?” and I replied “aren’t we all a little?“. This I realised after a short while in therapy. Which is so funny…

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    Wine & Whine

    About a week ago, one of my best girls, Zara and I decided we wanted to have a cry party. Yeah you read that right, we decided we no longer wanted to wear our big girl panties. We decided to call this event of ours “wine & whine” because we…